Exploring Essential Therapeutic Resources
- Brooke Van Doren

- Oct 20
- 4 min read
Healing is messy. It’s raw, unpredictable, and sometimes downright brutal. But it’s also brave, hopeful, and fiercely human. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are a tangled knot of anxiety, grief, betrayal, or childhood trauma, you’re not alone. I get it. I’ve been there too. And today, I want to walk you through some things that can help untangle those knots, one thread at a time.
Let’s be real - healing isn’t a straight path. It’s more like a rollercoaster with unexpected loops and drops. But with the right tools, you can hold on tight and maybe even enjoy the ride. Ready? Let’s dive in.
Therapy Aids for Healing: What Actually Works?
When you’re drowning in emotions, the last thing you want is a bunch of vague advice. You want real tools. Things you can touch, feel, and use to make sense of the chaos inside. Therapy aids for healing come in many shapes and sizes, and the best part? They don’t have to be expensive or complicated.
Here are some of my favorites:
Journaling: Not just scribbling down your day, but really digging deep. Write letters you don’t send. Pour out your anger, your confusion, your hopes. It’s like having a conversation with your soul.
Mindfulness and Meditation Apps: Apps like Headspace or Calm can guide you through breathing exercises and meditations that ground you when anxiety spikes.
Art Supplies: Paint, clay, or even coloring books designed for adults. Art bypasses the need for words and lets your feelings speak in color and shape.
Weighted Blankets: Sounds simple, but the deep pressure stimulation can calm your nervous system like a warm hug.
Therapeutic Books and Workbooks: Books that don’t sugarcoat trauma but offer practical exercises to work through it.
These tools aren’t magic wands. They’re more like flashlights in a dark room. They don’t erase the shadows, but they help you see where you’re stepping.

How to Choose the Right Therapy Aids for Healing
Here’s the thing - not every tool fits every person. What works for me might feel useless to you. And that’s okay. Healing is personal. It’s messy. It’s not one-size-fits-all.
Ask yourself:
What feels manageable right now? If you’re overwhelmed, maybe start with something simple like a breathing app.
What sparks a tiny bit of curiosity or hope? That’s your clue.
Can I commit to this for a few minutes a day? Consistency beats intensity.
Am I willing to be gentle with myself if it doesn’t work immediately?
Try a few things. Mix and match. Some days you’ll want to scream into a pillow; other days, you might want to paint a sunset. Both are valid.
And if you’re looking for a place to start, check out Tools that Talk Back to Anxiety, or one of the Therapy Companion Journals that offer compassionate, realistic approaches to healing. They get that you’re not broken - just beautifully human.

The Power of Connection: Therapy Aids That Bring Us Together
Healing doesn’t have to be a solo journey. Sometimes, the best therapy aids are the people and communities that hold space for your pain and your laughter. Because yes, you can hold grief and humor in the same breath.
Consider:
Support Groups: Whether online or in person, sharing your story with others who get it can be a lifeline.
Therapeutic Coaching or Counseling: Professional support tailored to your needs. Sometimes, a guide is exactly what you need to navigate the dark.
Creative Workshops: Group art therapy, writing circles, or movement classes that focus on emotional expression.
Trusted Friends or Family: People who listen without judgment and don’t rush to fix you.
Connection is messy too. It can hurt, it can heal, and it can teach you that you’re not alone in your struggle.

Practical Tips to Integrate Therapy Aids into Your Daily Life
Okay, so you’ve got some tools. Now what? How do you actually use them without feeling like it’s another chore on your to-do list?
Here’s my no-nonsense guide:
Start Small: Five minutes of journaling or meditation is better than none.
Create a Ritual: Maybe it’s morning coffee and a gratitude list or evening art time with candles.
Set Reminders: Use your phone or sticky notes to nudge you gently.
Be Flexible: Some days you’ll skip. That’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up.
Celebrate Wins: Even if it’s just showing up for yourself, that’s huge.
Remember, these aids are here to support you, not to add pressure. Healing is a marathon, not a sprint.
Embracing the Mess: Your Healing Journey is Valid
If you’re reading this and feeling overwhelmed, I want you to pause and breathe. Healing isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up, even when it’s hard. It’s about holding your pain and your joy, your anger and your laughter, all at once.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t have to be “fixed.” You just have to be you - messy, brave, and beautifully human.
So, what’s your next step? Maybe it’s picking up a journal, downloading a meditation app, or reaching out to someone who understands. Whatever it is, I’m rooting for you.
You’ve got this.
From my messy heart to yours,



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